PLANNING NOTES · 15 OCTOBER 2026

What to prepare before your first wedding-planning consultation

You do not need a finished plan before speaking with a wedding planner. A short brief gives the conversation a useful starting point: what you already know, what matters most and where you need help.

Start with dates, places and people

Write down your preferred date or date window. Flag any dates that cannot move, and separate a confirmed venue booking from a shortlist. If you are considering several destinations, explain what attracts you to each one.

Estimate the guest count for each function rather than using one number for the entire wedding. Note how many guests may need accommodation or transfers. A working estimate is enough; label it as provisional so nobody treats it as a commitment.

Make the budget boundaries clear

Bring an overall budget range and explain what it covers. Rooms, food, décor, entertainment, transport, photography and planning fees may appear in different proposals. Ask which costs are included, which are estimates and which will be quoted separately.

If you have not settled on a budget, list your three highest priorities. For example, you might care most about hosting everyone together, a particular ceremony setting or a relaxed guest experience. This helps focus the discussion on choices instead of a number without context.

Choose a few references and explain why

Bring a small selection of visual references. Describe the part you like: the colours, the lighting, the layout or the feeling of the celebration. A reference can guide a conversation without becoming a promise to reproduce another couple’s wedding.

Include preferences that a photograph cannot show: family traditions, accessibility needs, food preferences, quiet spaces and any restrictions on photography or public sharing. You can discuss sensitive guest details privately when they are needed; a first enquiry does not need a full guest list.

Explain what is already booked

List confirmed venues and vendors, along with decisions that are still open. Describe where you want planning help, then ask the planner to explain their proposed responsibilities and exclusions. Confirm who coordinates each part and who approves changes before treating anything as agreed.

Leave with a clear next step

Agree who will make decisions and receive updates. Ask what information is needed for a proposal, what the proposal will cover and when to expect the next conversation. Keep a short written note of the decisions and open questions.

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